OLIP Therapy · Fareham, Hampshire
Anger & Aggression Therapy
Understand what drives your anger and respond calmly, without judgement.
Anger & Aggression
Anger management therapy in Fareham, Hampshire, and online
Stay in control, even when the anger rises.
Anger itself is normal and healthy. It is when it tips into aggression, the lashing out, the loss of control, the regret afterwards, that it starts to cost you. That can change, and reaching out is a real sign of strength.
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Anger is normal. Losing control is the part we help with.
Anger management therapy helps you identify what triggers your anger, recognise the early physical warning signs, and build practical skills to respond calmly rather than react.
Anger is a natural defence, an instinct that has always helped us respond when we feel wronged, frustrated or under threat. Aggression is what happens when that anger escalates into hostility, and the sense of being at its mercy.
When it takes over, the people you love can end up walking on eggshells. If that sounds familiar, you are not a bad person. You are someone ready to change, and that is exactly where we come in.
When does anger become a problem?
Everyone gets angry. It may be time to get support if you recognise a few of these.
A short fuse
You boil over at small things, faster than you wish you did.
Lashing out
Anger spills into words, or sometimes actions, you later regret.
Eggshells around you
Those you love seem wary and careful, never quite relaxed.
Breaking things
In the heat of it, you slam, throw or damage things.
Losing control
In the moment, it feels as though something else takes over.
The aftermath
Afterwards comes the guilt, the regret, the wish to take it back.
If things ever feel unsafe
Your safety, and your family's, comes first. Support is available whether you are worried about your own behaviour or about someone else's.
999 if anyone is in immediate danger
Respect Phoneline for anyone worried about their own behaviour, free and confidential, on 0808 802 4040
National Domestic Abuse Helpline free, 24 hours, on 0808 2000 247
Men's Advice Line on 0808 801 0327
Anger follows a curve. Learn to step off before the peak.
Every outburst moves through stages. Tap each one to see what is happening, and where you still have a choice.
What helps here:
The earlier in the curve you act, the more choice you have. Building that skill, together, is the heart of what we do.
Anger shows up in different ways
It is not always shouting. Two of the most common patterns we help with:
Chronic anger
A low threshold for triggers means frequent flare-ups, even over small things. The anger builds over time, and everyone around you stays on alert, never quite sure what might set it off.
Passive aggression
Anger expressed indirectly, through sulking, stubbornness, silence or procrastination. Because the real feeling is never named, those around you are left confused, and relationships quietly strain.
How we help you regain control
We work with the root of the anger, not just the surface, so calmer responses become your new normal.
Hypnotherapy
Work with the conscious and unconscious mind to calm the root of the anger and reshape your automatic responses.
Learn more →Counselling
Understand where the anger comes from, including patterns learned long ago, in a safe and non-judgemental space.
Learn more →CBT
Spot the thoughts that fuel the fire and the triggers that light it, and build calmer, more measured responses.
Learn more →Real, practical skills for the heat of the moment
Working together in a supportive space, you learn to:
Recognise exactly what triggers your anger
Spot the early signs and calm down before reacting
Communicate frustration without aggression
Reframe the thoughts that pour fuel on the fire
Resolve conflict calmly and fairly
Manage the underlying stress that feeds it
Build empathy and see other points of view
Take ownership, and move forward with confidence
Break the cycle, for good
Aggression is often learned, sometimes from what we saw growing up. It does not have to be passed on. Getting help now protects your health, your relationships, and the people who matter most, including your children.
Start the change todayGetting started is simple
A calm, supportive path, always free of judgement.
A quick chat
Call us for a friendly, no-pressure conversation about what is going on.
A free consultation
We explain how therapy works and answer any questions you have.
Your sessions
We find your triggers and build calmer, more controlled responses.
Lasting calm
You feel back in control, with steadier relationships and more peace.
How much does anger management therapy cost?
Your initial consultation is always free, with no obligation to book anything afterwards.
Initial 15 minute consultation
Per 50 minute counselling session
Per session for hypnotherapy or CBT
A six-session programme is £504, saving £36. All prices include VAT, and full details are on our fees page.
Looking for anger management near you?
Our practice is in Fareham, within easy reach of most of south Hampshire, with free parking outside and evening appointments available.
Fareham
Arena Office, Lancaster Court, 8 Barnes Wallis Road, PO15 5TU.
Southampton & Portsmouth
Both around 15 to 20 minutes along the M27.
Winchester & Basingstoke
Straightforward down the M3, with clients travelling in regularly.
Online, UK-wide
Secure video sessions, seven days a week.
Clients also travel from Gosport, Whiteley, Havant and Chichester.
Common questions about anger and aggression
Is it normal to feel this angry?
Anger itself is completely normal and even useful. What needs support is when it tips into aggression or a loss of control. That part is very treatable, and you are far from alone in seeking help for it.
What is the difference between anger and aggression?
Anger is the emotion. Aggression is what you do with it, the shouting, the slamming, the hurtful words. You can feel intense anger without ever being aggressive, and that gap is exactly what therapy widens.
Can therapy really help me control my anger?
Yes. By understanding your triggers, calming the root of the emotion and learning practical in-the-moment skills, most people gain far more control over how they respond.
Will I be judged?
Never. Our therapists are warm and non-judgemental. Coming for help with anger is a brave, responsible step, and we treat it as exactly that.
What if someone else asked me to come?
That is a common way people arrive, whether it is a partner, a family member or an employer who raised it. It is worth being honest with yourself about whether you want the change too, because that makes the difference. We will talk it through openly at your free consultation, without pressure either way.
How much does it cost?
The initial consultation is free. Counselling is £72 per session, and hypnotherapy or CBT are £90, or £504 for a six-session programme. All prices include VAT.
What types of anger do you help with?
All kinds, from a short fuse and chronic anger to passive aggression and outbursts that feel out of control. We tailor the approach to you.
How many sessions will I need?
It varies with the person and how long the pattern has been present. Many people notice a real difference within a few sessions. We will always be honest about what to expect.
Can it be done online?
Yes. We offer support in person in Fareham, Hampshire, and securely online across the UK, whichever feels easier for you.
“Anger was never the enemy. Losing control was. Therapy gives you the choice back.”
Book your free consultationReady to feel in control again?
The first step is simply acknowledging it. From there, pick up the phone or book a free, no-pressure consultation, and we will help you find a calmer way forward.